Homily at Our Lady of the Valleys for Christmas 2023.
Who’s in charge around here?
At Christmas time, we often look back at the year ending, and it seems to me the big question of 2023 might be, “Who’s in charge?”
Maybe you saw the Oppenheimer movie this summer. The story of the atom bomb is the story of America saying “We don’t want the Enemy in charge, so we need to build this terrible weapon before they do.” But I think the movie director also wanted you to think about the project director – who was blocked from becoming a Cabinet minister by the US Congress – and made a political movie about who’s really in charge.
Here in Britain we’ve had the same Prime Minister for more than a year, after a turbulent time of change, but by next Christmas we will have had an election which will force all of us to ask, “Who do I want to be in charge?” We have the privilege of living in a democracy so please choose to consider the question and use your vote prayerfully.
Maybe you saw the Barbie movie this summer. I think that director wanted you to ask, wouldn’t the world be so much better if more women were in charge?
But now we’ve just heard the comfortable Christmas story celebrated again, a story where the director – God, in this case – is asking you, “Wouldn’t the world be so much better if this Baby were in charge?”
For the child we celebrate today is the Prince of Peace, the Lord of Lords, the gentle king who does not impose his ways on us but invites us to open our hearts to him. That a woman should have a baby is not an unusual story. That a Virgin should bear a child is more remarkable. That the child should grow up to be violently executed and yet appear very much alive on the third day is a remarkable claim indeed. But is it Barbie or Oppenheimer? Is it a fantasy of how the world could be different, or a historical account of a seismic event which reshaped human history?
I was thinking of another movie a couple of months ago. I took a short cruise to Ephesus, the place where the Virgin Mary lived out her latter years. When I was at the front of the ship I did what any movie fan would do – I did the Titanic pose. You know the one where the Jack character played by Leonardo di Caprio pretends he’s flying and calls out, “I’m the King of the World!”?
Well, I’m not the King of the World. But the Baby whose birth we celebrate today is. He is a gentle king who does not impose his reign but asks us to vote for him with each word and action that we take.
When Titanic was in the cinema, so many people watched it again and again, because who doesn’t want to dream about a love story like that? And we celebrate Christmas again and again because our hearts hear the same message of hope. And it’s true. Christmas is a story of love and hope. God loved us so much that he sent Baby Jesus to do what was needed to open the gates of heaven. At this time of year we focus on doing good deeds, Christmas cheer, peace and goodwill to all people. But in the New Year, we’ll go back to normal – unless we choose not to. Instead we could continue to ask the question, “Who’s in charge around here?”
When we ask, “Is God in charge of the world?” we will surely think of the worst things that happen in our world. I’m sure you’re as horrified as I am at the human tragedy unfolding in Gaza, following the abhorrent attack on Israel in October. Lives continue to be lost on the border of Ukraine and Russia too. But if we dare to ask what God is doing about these dark situations, we will find God confronting us about our own willingness to make peace with our enemies. Maybe we can do little about these far-distant conflicts, but we can choose to bring peace to some of the unresolved tensions in our own life, in situations which require us to ask forgiveness, drop a grudge, or eat humble pie. Our willingness, or not, to do these things leads to another question.
“Is Jesus in charge of my life?”
Does Jesus ask more of me than simply being kind to the other people I meet, and making peace with my enemies? If the baby we celebrate today is also the Judge we will meet on the day we draw our last breath, surely it’s important to know on what he is going to judge us?
For that reason I’d like to invite you to try out a little course we’re running called Following Christ. For seven weeks you get a chance to think about these deep questions of life, in good company. It launches in January in Treforest, but you can also join by Zoom. Just as the birth of Jesus was the beginning of something new for Mary and Joseph, so drawing close to Jesus can be a new beginning for each one of us.
Who’s in charge around here? For now, you are. You are the captain of your soul, unless you’ve already given it to Jesus. But one day you will meet your Maker. The answers you seek are found not in a nuclear weapon or the battle of the sexes, but in the true King of the World, the baby whose birth we celebrate this night/day. As a Christmas gift to you, I offer you eternal life. Will you give your life to the Baby of Bethlehem, trusting that he will give you so much more in return? When you are ready to learn his ways, come and follow him. And a Happy Christmas to you all.