Homily at the Sion Community, for our Family Day on the Seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time, Year C.
Sometimes, Our Lord Jesus speaks so clearly there is no need of elaboration.
We are to love our enemies, and here is how to do it.
So this afternoon I ask you, “Do you desire to love your enemies?”
If you already regard your enemies with a compassion which flows sweetly from your hearts, you have no need of a sermon from me today; simply go, and pour out your love.
Sometimes this happens, and the world takes notice. Earlier this week, Dr Adam Towler produced an extraordinary statement which was read in court. Dr Towler had been stabbed multiple times by a stranger who knocked on his door with wild accusations, and yet as his attacker was being sentenced, he sent this message: “Sometimes I would feel bad that I had this great freedom but you didn’t – I wondered if you had just made a mistake, albeit a big one, or been unlucky.” Neither we nor the trial judge know what motivated the victim to make such an extraordinary statement, but the judge commented: “If it is the consequence of intellect, I admire it. If it is the consequence of faith, I envy it.”
Whether or not it comes naturally to us to love our enemies, this is a choice we are all free to make. And Our Lord spells out clearly how to do it. We are not to get caught up in the game of “You scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours.” Rather we are to play the game of “I’ll scratch your back because your back is itching and I am in the right place to help.”
“But if I don’t play that game, I’ll lose out!” – I hear you cry. And yes, maybe in the short term you will. But in the long term – you will be a winner, because we have an Ultimate Judge who sees all and is looking for compassionate, generous hearts.
The Bible calls King David a “man after God’s own heart”. While Saul was King, he and David were at best, frenemies. The King’s son, Jonathan, was David’s closest friend. David was married to one of King Saul’s daughters, and was made commander of Israel’s armies. But Saul was jealous of David, especially when the people started crying “Saul has killed his thousands, and David his tens of thousands.”
More than that, the prophet Samuel had anointed David with oil and said one day, after Saul, David would be king. If you were David, wouldn’t you be tempted to stage a coup or allow one of your bodyguards to stab Saul in the back? But David lived by a simple principle. God had also chosen and anointed Saul to be king. David would not raise his hand against the Lord’s anointed.
Today’s first reading is one example of David’s restraint. Another story in the Bible tells how David was hiding in a cave, and Saul came into that very cave to use the bathroom! Instead of using his sword to stab Saul, David cut off the corner of his cloak. A few moments after Saul had returned to his troops, to continue the hunt for David, the man they are looking for steps out with the piece of fabric and declared that he had no intention of harming the King. Saul and his troops went home, embarrassed. When David eventually does become King, it is because Saul and Jonathan have fallen in battle against enemies from outside Israel.
David has an important lesson to teach us, because he knows that although God is with him, God had also chosen Saul, with all his flaws, to be anointed king. We too must recognise this when our enemies are also part of God’s plan.
“Enemy” is a strong word. Maybe we don’t have enemies in the sense of people who are seeking to harm us or undermine us. Perhaps we only have rivals at work. But I’m sure we can all think of people who are obstacles to our Church being the kind of church we want it to be.
We’ve gathered here for a Family Day because I’m guessing you don’t have a day like this in the parish where you normally worship. And if you’re a Catholic in love with Jesus and wanting to follow him, how often do the priest and the parishioners of your regular parish feel like enemies, or at least obstacles?
Maybe your parish priest is all about helping the practical needs of the poor and needy, but doesn’t seem to want to tell them about Jesus.
Or maybe your parish priest seems to care most about vestments and Latin and producing ceremonies which are very elaborate but don’t feel like they connect with you or many of the people in the parish.
Maybe there are parishioners, even stewards, in your parish who seem hostile to families with small children and go “shush” or direct you to the back row when you come in.
Or maybe you’ve tried to get the Parish Council to think about how to invite people in your town to become followers of Jesus, but all they seem interested in is how to arrange another jumble sale to raise funds to fix the church roof.
Yes, our churches are full of enemies. But these too are the Lord’s anointed!
Your parish priest, for all his failings, has been discerned by the Church as fit for ministry and invested with divine authority to forgive sins and celebrate the Eucharist.
The members of your parish have been called by Jesus to be members of his Church. I hesitate to say that they have all been granted the gift of faith; but they at least have a sense of belonging which opens the door to be challenged to know and serve Jesus.
Do not raise your hand against the Lord’s anointed!
When Jesus tells us to turn the other cheek, he is not asking anyone to be a doormat or a willing victim. Rather, he wants us to give our oppressors a chance to think again! In the Middle East, the left hand was considered unclean. Turning the other cheek might provoke an angry person to strike with the left hand and so publicly embarrass them for carrying out a taboo action. How can you embarrass your enemy with kindness? Maybe the last thing you think your parish needs is a cake sale, but by donating the most lavish cake you might find yourself in a position of influence next time an event is organised – or perhaps you could even decorate your cake with a message of Christian faith!
Now I can’t promise you that your acts of love will get instant results. David attended court and played the harp to soothe Saul, but still sometimes Saul lashed out in anger. I once shared a house with a man who had a bad temper. We weren’t getting along very well, so I decided to make a peace-offering. He loved eating melon for breakfast, so when he went away for a week’s holiday, I made sure there was fresh melon in the fridge for his return. This did not have the desired effect. My gift was rewarded with a small explosion of anger – “That’s not the sort of melon I like, but now I have to eat it!” Truly, no good deed goes unpunished!
So I’d like to invite you now to pick an enemy. Maybe a member of your family. Perhaps someone at work or at school. Or it could be a member of your usual parish. Think of one thing you could do which would really help or support them. Your mission for this week is to go out and act with love – because that is a choice we can always make. At best, you will transform an enemy into a friend – but at worst you will have obeyed Our Lord’s command.
Our acts of love may not touch the heart of our enemies, but they will always touch the heart of God. When the prophet Samuel was sent to anoint David as king, he was the smallest and least impressive of the eight sons of Jesse. But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature… For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
Yes, we human beings often miss what is going on in the heart of a person. Our Ultimate Judge always notices. Sometimes, other judges notice too. Loving enemies is a choice we can all make. Yes, we will have unguarded moments which our frustrations get the better of us, but we can all make the choice to do kind acts for which we expect to receive no earthly reward. We are called to display so much love for our enemies that even a respected judge would envy our faith.